What Makes a Decent Human Being?
The religious would have you
think that you can’t be decent unless you have the same thoughts and beliefs as
they do. But, I submit that they’re
wrong. Hypocrisy knows no bounds when
immoral people are involved.
Of course, we all lie. See Pamela Meyer: “How to spot a liar” on
YouTube here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P_6vDLq64gE
and then you can realize that something innate is very difficult to
eliminate. Lying is a human trait. It probably will never be eliminated, but we
can learn to deal with some of it.
The problem is when a “white
lie” which can be something unimportant such as answering the question, “Honey,
do I look fat in this dress?” turns into a serious lie like “No, I didn’t steal
that car.” Or, “I did not have sex with that woman…” (President Bill Clinton).
Some of the least trusted
people are salespeople. Sometimes, they
are forced to lie or are duped into lying about a product just to sell it. And, of course, this discourse wouldn’t be
complete without mentioning politicians who lie to get elected and then do as
they please, or worse, as other bid them to do. Many taking money, lots of money, in the process.
Let’s bring religion into
the picture. As we are seeing with the
Clergy Project, there are many members of the clergy who have lost their
beliefs and still stand in front of their congregation and preach the gospels. Here are men and women who are deliberately
lying to people because they don’t know of one or are unwilling to find a way
out. I realize they are trapped in a
situation that seems like there is no way out and am willing to give them a
pass with this caveat: They must work
to find a solution to the problem to regain their credibility.
Here’s the biggest rub: I have seen average everyday people who
claim to be religious on Sunday (or whatever day they call holy) who will then
become the most aggressively dishonest people the other days of the week. Everyone knows at least one person like
this. AND, as long as they’re forgiven
before they die, they get into heaven.
HUH? And yet, someone who lives
a very moral, yet secular, life cannot get there unless they truly
believe. DOUBLE HUH?!
So, decency seems to be in
short supply at times and learning to avoid those who lack common human
morality is critical today. It’s even
more difficult in the digital age where all we know of them are words on a
screen.
I submit that almost every
religion encourages lying, cheating and stealing because their foundations are
built on the biggest lie of all.
Walk the Path in Grace